Does it have to be though?

Another phrase like this one:

It is what it is.

No no. It is what it is because people made it what is. People can change what it is.

Yeah well I don’t believe life is a race, and even if it is it’s rigged so who fucking cares?

Root vegetable? That’s a radish, you uncultured swine!

I mean, I don’t know that ALL of them work that way, but the ones I’ve seen do. I have mixed feelings about the whole scenario.

It’s usually done by posing as a teenager in chats, then they get confronted at the meet-up.

Pretty solid way to identify the right person.